January 1, 2006

This is going to sound petty

This is going to sound petty, but (there always is a but) I don't know what to do. Gg loves me, I have no doubt of this. I feel the same way about him.I've only known him 8 months, but we're close. We went to cali together. I got to kiss him on New Years. It was the first time I have had someone to share it with. I was happy. Then ten minutes later I go to kiss him and he turns away. I am entirely confused. Then I have a though. Her.
This girl had known Gg for years. She has a history with him that I can't compete with. He doesn't have feelings for her, but she is his friend. She does not like me. If i enter a room that she is in she will leave. The night he told her we were dating she punched him because she was mad. Apparently she has had a crush on him for 4 years, but never said anything because she thought he didn't feel the same, and he doesn't. Gg doesn't want to rub it in her face that he is with me, which is why he didn't kiss me. He said he has been in the same situation, so doesn't want to be mean to her. Yes, its part of the reason I love him. He really cares about his friends, but what do I do about this girl. I try being nice and talking to her, but she isn't going to get my boyfriend, and I'm afriad thats all she wants. How do I deal with it?


Slatts said...

There really is not anything you can do. It is a tension that exists not between you and her, but between her and him. And because it is between her and him it will have to be dealt with by those two.

She will just have to learn that feelings must sit behind prudence. If she cannot learn that jealousy will infect her from the inside.

Anonymous said...

I think he is probably not making the best choice by doing that. She will see him drawing back and know it is because of her. She will then think it is because he has feelings for her too. Taking reality away for a person isn't the best way to help a person deal with a situation in my opinion.

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